Has anyone ever told you that your creative work sucks? If not, just wait. It’ll happen. And when it does, avoid the urge to hide in a hole. Instead, consider it a rite of passage.
I’ve been told several times over my career that I’m not a good writer. And my photographs have been dismissed as well. Like most artists, I internalized those hurtful comments and even believed them. But I never let them stop me.
Well, at one point, I did give up my dreams and got a “real” job selling other people’s art. But I pulled late nights and early mornings to write the scripts, essays, and books that haunted my spirit and demanded to be given voice. I never stopped writing or taking pictures. I just couldn’t.
It took a long time to realize that “they,” my critics, were simply wrong. Everyone brings their own experiences, aesthetics, and stories with them when they look at art. Just because someone doesn’t like something, doesn’t mean it’s “bad.”
But more importantly, no one is born a brilliant artist. It takes time and dedication to a consistent practice to get to the good stuff, to develop your craft and find your voice.
A few years ago I was at a dinner party with the gorgeous artist Kiki Smith. Kiki’s had massive success in her career, the kind most of us only dream about. We were talking about our journeys as artists. A curator quipped in, “I studied fine art in college, but I realized I wasn’t a good enough painter to make it. So I became a curator instead.”
Kiki caught him, “No,” she said, “that’s not why you quit. You quit because you aren’t an artist. An artist wouldn’t have quit. An artist would keep making art because he couldn’t help himself.”
It’s that simple. It’s not about whether you’re good or bad, it’s not about how much money you can earn. It’s about owning who you are, giving voice to your ideas, doing the work, and not letting anyone stand in your way. What’s the difference between artists who succeed and artists who fail? Purpose and dedication. Never quit.
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I disagree. Some true artists do quit. There can be many reasons, not just criticism, that will lead someone to quit, and of course it will hurt. But I agree that you shouldn’t quit, that if you have done so – find your way back, even if it’s doing something in a small way. It’s vital to your true self.
Very true, you don’t just quit because someone doesn’t like your art or you get rejected, not everyone likes the same things, that’s just how it is. I just wrote a post on my blog (urbansoule.blogspot.com) about how I was and am going through a creative “slump”. Sales are slow right now, it’s cold, it’s dark and I don’t feel like painting, but I make myself go to my studio, whether I make something or not, I might just sit there, I might clean and organize or I might even paint… doesn’t matter, you have to keep going and get in your studio, everything passes with with time, never give up and for sure, never quit. This week I made three new large paintings. So my creative “slump” has ended.
This is very inspiring and true. Thank you! I haven’t read anything so beautiful and helpful for a while now until this.